Ahhhh. Every word here is magic. And you are right—technology is neutral, and it can be used to enhance our relationships and uplift us or to disconnect us from ourselves and others in real life.
Creating intentional friction, embracing vulnerabilities, being present. Calling (not just texting) my humans, deepening certain friendships intentionally, staying in the moment when we're together... this is my work too... thank you M...
Thank you for this piece. I find myself sometimes saying “it’s just easier”. But it can be a both/and. While I’m chasing my toddler around, simply staying updated makes sense. And also I cannot stay there for too long.
i am so grateful you wrote this. much of this has been on my mind and heart for a very long time, and i’ve never heard anyone really go there and talk about it out loud. perhaps because it’s also a very tender topic in certain ways.
the timing is wild (or just perfect), as i’m planning on writing a post that touches on some of this very soon. i loved seeing your articulations of some similar notions i have— they expanded my language and understanding of a collective phenomenon that’s so pervasive, yet so nuanced and unspoken.
Many are aimlessly searching online for something they’ve always craved but never truly experienced. Others sense it’s familiar—like a memory tucked away—but they’ve forgotten the way back. Then there are those who remember community and connection well, but in trading convenience for connection, they’ve lost the muscle memory for it. As with any skill, if you don’t use it, you lose it. Your essay offers a map for the weary, guiding them back to the oasis of authentic connection. It brings clarity, depth, and humanity—hallmarks of your writing. Thank you - I always recognize humanity in your writing.
Ahhhh. Every word here is magic. And you are right—technology is neutral, and it can be used to enhance our relationships and uplift us or to disconnect us from ourselves and others in real life.
I appreciate you reading, Rasha!
Creating intentional friction, embracing vulnerabilities, being present. Calling (not just texting) my humans, deepening certain friendships intentionally, staying in the moment when we're together... this is my work too... thank you M...
Inconvenient work at times, but so, so necessary. I appreciate you, friend!
Thank you for this piece. I find myself sometimes saying “it’s just easier”. But it can be a both/and. While I’m chasing my toddler around, simply staying updated makes sense. And also I cannot stay there for too long.
Heavy on the “both/and” — I appreciate you Ashley!
i am so grateful you wrote this. much of this has been on my mind and heart for a very long time, and i’ve never heard anyone really go there and talk about it out loud. perhaps because it’s also a very tender topic in certain ways.
the timing is wild (or just perfect), as i’m planning on writing a post that touches on some of this very soon. i loved seeing your articulations of some similar notions i have— they expanded my language and understanding of a collective phenomenon that’s so pervasive, yet so nuanced and unspoken.
thank you <3
oh wow. thank you times a million. thank you 💗
Many are aimlessly searching online for something they’ve always craved but never truly experienced. Others sense it’s familiar—like a memory tucked away—but they’ve forgotten the way back. Then there are those who remember community and connection well, but in trading convenience for connection, they’ve lost the muscle memory for it. As with any skill, if you don’t use it, you lose it. Your essay offers a map for the weary, guiding them back to the oasis of authentic connection. It brings clarity, depth, and humanity—hallmarks of your writing. Thank you - I always recognize humanity in your writing.
Words of truth. Honest. Refreshing.
Beautifully, beautifully said.
Such a timely read. Thank you!